Monthly Archives: March 2012

Six Strangely Sexual Foods

Shocked in bedEveryone wants a good night in bed.  And what better way to achieve one with that one special person (or special one night stand depending on who you are), then with a sexy aphrodisiac!  For those of you that don’t know, an aphrodisiac is a food that you can consume which will increase your desires for sex.  But if you’re going to go with the sex potion of food, why not do the big leagues?  Below are 6 of the strangest aphrodisiacs that people actually consume.

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The 4 Best Gifts for a Nerdy Boyfriend

GamerWhen your boyfriend isn’t answering his phone you know he’s busy killing russian terrorists in the years latest Call of Duty game.  The only time you’ve seen him cry was when the Broncos lost the 2012 Superbowl on his Xbox.  Yes people, you have a totally nerdy boyfriend and you love it.  You have no issue going out with the girls to let your man stay home to figure out the latest puzzle in Portal 2.  But now you have an anniversary or birthday coming up, what now?  Fear not, here is my list of four perfect gifts to give to your nerdy man:
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The Problem with First Date Sex

Beach loveThe most exciting part about a relationship is when you finally strip someone down to see what they are packin’.  Come on ladies we all know that while you like to be wined and dined, whats on the back of everyone’s mind is, “I wonder what’s under those clothes.”  So do you wait or do you go at it the first night?  Everyone has their own opinions as to when they feel it’s right to have sex but what is the impact of having sex at early stages of the relationship?

Part of the excitement of getting “freaky” is that you are experiencing someone else in one of life’s greatest joys.  While a lot of people think that guys just want to have sex, research shows that guys will find sex as a more intimate affair than women will.  The reason is that women understand that they can go out and find a guy any night of the week, while guys have to work to get back into a ladies bed.  This is probably why sex is not seen as a passionate thing for many gay males.  Sex is a much more common and normal thing to come across when my friends and I are out.  But how damaging is this to the actual relationship?

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Will Love Really Make you Happy?

Finger LoveThere have been multiple people since I began writing my blog, that have come up to me and asked me for advice.  They find it hard to find a relationship that will drive them to be happy.  Everyone wants a boyfriend it seems like.  Both women and men that are single want that satisfaction and sensation of being in love.  So how do you find it?  How do you go about getting that perfect spouse?  Look at anyone who has been in a relationship for a very long time.  specifically look at those that are very happy, maybe they are planning on getting married, maybe they already are.  Now if you immediately thought of that person who “has it all” then you might be on to something.  Those people did not just stumble into being happy and perfect all by accident.  They first fixed themselves.  They worked hard to make themselves happy.  So the true question I would like to ask you is will love really make you happy?

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How do you consider ending a multi-year relationship?

Couple fightingYou’ve been in a relationship for a few years and you feel there just isn’t that spark anymore.  You thought of trying to end it, but you don’t know how.  Being attached to someone for that long you may feel you have been stuck in a rut and routine, or that you don’t even remember how to date.  But you know now that since the person has changed, either personally or physically, you are not ment to be together.  This is one of the worst  battles one can fight internally.  There is no easy way to end a relationship when you both have so much history.  So the goal is to let them down, but not in a way that will destroy you and what you had, while not destroying the other person either.  How do you consider ending a multi-year relationship?

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